Runner returned from his trip and when he touched down in the US, he sent me a text. He didn’t set up a date for a day or so and then asked to cook me dinner. We all know that means sex. He came to my place because it worked out better that way. He brought everything including dessert and made me a delicious meal. We had a nice time cooking together and talking, kissing, being affectionate. And, not surprising, we had sex. I considered talking to him about the relationship status beforehand, but then decided that would be weird. I wouldn’t want to claim exclusivity with a guy before seeing what he had to offer between the sheets. Being that first time sex is always awkward, I wouldn’t make up my mind until we’d slept together at least three times anyway. So, I let it go.
He left at 2AM and was sort-of weird about it. Not, “oh shit my wife is going to kill me!” weird but uncomfortable weird. I thought it was odd that he didn’t just stay the night. He had all kinds of reasons not to (not that I asked or begged him to, but he threw them out there). He kissed me good-bye a few times and booked it out the door. It’s 6pm and I have yet to hear from him. What kind of guy sleeps with a woman (after six or so dates, I might add) and doesn’t contact her the following day to say hello and that he had a nice time? A guy whose totally not into you, that’s who.