I met Guy #1 at a bar near my house and ended up spending a few hours talking to him over a beer. He is just what I thought — kind-of a player. He’s attractive and charismatic, but not someone I would have a relationship with. He just doesn’t have his shit together the way he should. Maybe something casual, but only if he puts in the effort.
I left Guy #1 and went to meet Guy #2 on the other side of town. He was extremely nervous and awkward, kinda whiny, pretty much someone I would not even hang out with as a friend. We chatted for about 45 minutes. I drank water and because he was complaning about what a bad day he had for pretty much the entire time, I didn’t want to leave too soon, and make his day even worse.
So, that’s that. It worked out OK because I didn’t have to drive far and I didn’t have to get ready to go out. I did miss dinner (a handful of fries and one piece of chicken and a beer) and because I wasn’t home much after work, I had to stay up late and play with my dog, which meant I missed my workout this morning. Was it worth it? No, not really.
I was contacted by someone too good to be true. I’m skeptical. I will keep you updated.