Seems like the dating thing has quite the extreme highs and lows when it comes to numbers, anyway.
After dating the guy I just wasn’t into, I found some confidence in myself. The working out is helping, too. I’m feeling hotter and looking hotter. Feels good! However, I wasn’t feeling so “hot” on Friday and it turns out I had strep throat, so with my antibiotics and a few movies, I stayed in all of Friday night and Saturday. While I was
going stir-crazy hanging out in my apartment I decided to go on Match and start “winking”.
I pulled up all possible matches and winked away for at least two hours. It was exhausting! I can’t even imagine emailing all those guys, being witty and interesting. And, to be honest, even though I was going to start contacting men, it’s just not me. I think a “wink” is appropriate, then you need to let them take the lead. It just works better that way. And, I’m not a chaser. Never have been and never will be.
I’m emailing a few. I told one of my serial texter guys that I’m done being his penpal. We either meet, or we don’t. So he set up a date and time. I’m not all that excited about this one, but I’ll let him buy me a drink.